So it has been awhile, I know!! But things have been happening and most of them are really awesome!
I had a reading a couple of months ago, a fab lady called Deb that my friend Rachel introduced me to last year. It didnt feel right to have a reading around christmas with everything going on so waited a bit
Auckland anniversary weekend (end of January) started a time of change for me, a relationship and the blurred lines around that ended. I quit social media (back now) I decided I was
never going to find someone on a Man Holiday and going to focus on me for awhile. The first thing i wanted to do was be more social! So I accepted an offer from Mark who I had met at the Movember Mohunt to go with some friends to the Silo Park outdoor movies. Perfect! meet new people and step WAAAYYY out of my comfort zone! I had only met him once but being in public with others whats the worse that could happen right!? I went along and had a great night, they were awesome people and he was just as lovely as i remember from November.
The next day I had my reading with Deb. She is wonderful, the reading was so clear and so me! Turns out 2012 was not the year for all the changes I wanted to make and its all about 2013. Such perfect timing! And of course relationships came into this, Love is on the way as well as a new place to live (reading said a change or renovations to a current place, I thought maybe mum and dad were moving or my flat was getting a makeover)
One of those things happened very quickly…
Mark and I spent time together for the next 5 days… didn’t make 7days only because we each had plans. We were hanging out as friends and (he knows this next bit) to be honest I wasn’t thinking anything else but he was. Meeting someone new and taking the friends first approach is such a great way to do it, no pressure and judging. Sadly for him friends frame of mind meant I saw him a couple of times after the gym or with no makeup on lol!
My man holiday didn’t last long! on Valentines day we made it clear to each other what we wanted. I set ground rules though, and mostly stuck to them.
Anyway having someone around was a strange but awesome adjustment.
AND in July i move into where my sister is currently living which is dads rental place WHOOP